Clarity is Coming Along Well

Replying to C here :) I totally agree with your math problem simile. We absolutely have to take this step by step. And if there are little things bothering us we should just say them out strait away. Keeping things bottled up almost always leads to an eruption in the end. And about what S says about all for one, she has told me this also. At first for me it was to the point where it was like okayy, if they do not want to be friends then whatever.. I'm cool with both. Ya get? I am starting to inch towards her opinion a little now though. I am not saying that I have totally changed my mind, but I do agree now. We should all be in this together. I disagree with the concept of severing ties with some people based on their relationship to someone else though. Moving on to the topic of being clumped together now. Like I said. I am me. We are all friends but you should know that I always have my own opinions. Haha.. Sometimes that is good and sometimes it is bad. But in this case it is just reaffirming the point of not me not thinking something about you or whatever because of who I am with. Honestly, I try my best to stay neutral in everything. Oh, and while I am on that point.. L, I know that I have not really talked to you about any of this, but I just wanna say right now since we are all being honest, that I think that you take sides too quickly sometimes. It feels like whichever side of the story you hear first is who you support. And this may sound the wrong way because there should not even be situations that require sides or whatever but let's face the facts.. It happens. And this is not really the first time. It's not like you treat me a different way if Im on the "opposing side" though. I just think that you should form your own opinions of me. Not something based upon something someone else is feeling or something they might say out of anger or pain. I totally get being defensive over your bffs but if this is really suppose to be a group of 6 besties then I am your bff too. And this is so not a big deal. Just a small thing that I wanted to point out. I totally do not mean it to sound harsh or anything at all . It's just something that I wanted to say. So yeahh, till the next post is up, yall. (-: